people try an guide thier way useing experience,feelings,want,need and intuition

q1 what makes you cross at a crossing even if a car is still moveing towards you?

a1 because you are confident the car will see you an stop

q2 what makes you not wear a bullet proof vest?

a2 because you are confident you wont be shot

everyone lives by these rules, we are all aware of the uknown an there are things in our lives we are more confident about than others

if you are confident that something will work you need to aim for it

if you are confident that something wont work you need to realise that

and if you are happy just to 'shrug' about it, you need to look at it again

what people 'want' an what people 'need' as we all know are generally two different things